Kids

There may be a possibility that the woman of your dreams has a kid or two. Though I have never understood why, this freaks some men out. At least you know she's fertile. For some reason guys think because she's got a kid or two she's damaged goods.

That is the way an asshole thinks. What should it matter? Apparently her first relationship didn't work out. This doesn't mean that if you get into a relationship with her that it's doomed from the get-go. If she has a kidor kidsgrow up! I know that a lot of guys don't want an Instant Family and that's fine. I also know a lot of super-hot chicks who have kids and don't date much because of it. (And I mean super-hot.)

So, just find out before you take her out if she's got any kids. If she's got a few, just smile and move away from her if it makes you that uncomfortable. But don't treat her like she's got the plague!

One more note, just because she's got kids doesn't mean she's easy. Don't ever assume she's going to have sex with you just because you bought her a meal. Always be kind and respectful. That's building good Karma and we could all use some good Karma.

What we learned:

■ Some women already have kids. If you don't want to deal with that, be upfront about it. Never waste her time.